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Finding Love In Cyberspace/internet Dating

Internet Dating

Dating on the Internet or finding love in Cyberspace can be exciting, inviting and instant.

We live in a society that requires and wants everything immediately, instantly! We have fast

food restaurants, drive through bank tellers, instant credit, instant potatoes, coffee,numerous other things and now instant love!

Life After Divorce and/or Death

There IS life after divorce and life after spousal death. And life after forgiving and releasing past negative memories or previous unpleasant relationships that were not working.

The Internet provides an instant manner of communication by the click of a key on a keyboard; you can be instantly connected to people all over the world, thanks to our modern technology. Internet dating is another way of meeting people. As with everything there are

pros and cons to Internet/Cyberspace love connections. It is similar to dating clubs,

organizations, dances, cruises and other ways that connect singles with other singles. The Internet is another source of meeting new and interesting people. It is also one of the tools to use to meet that special someone with which to have a long-term, happy relationship or marriage. Internet dating can be fun, exciting and scary all at the same time. There are many levels of excitement and we all react in various ways. While it is good to move out of the Sleeping Car of the Relationship Train, it is also wise to use balance and common sense.

Meeting in Person

People may have a fantastic relationship over the telephone or by email but could be sorely

disappointed when they meet in person and get to know one another. Some people may not be honest about their age, appearance, employment, intentions or marital status.It is as much taking a risk and moving out of your comfort zone as meeting people anywhere through newspaper ads, friends, acquaintances, dating services, or places of employment. It is easier to access meeting people over the Internet than by some other methods. Internet Dating provides a little different angle on meeting people. Some of us are trained to love through our eyes — by what we see, not from our hearts.

Internet Stories

One lady had a fantastic relationship by email and lengthy telephone conversations and when she met the gentleman she could not get past the fact that he was, in her opinion, grossly overweight. In his email he said he was a little big. She said their minds fell desperately in love, but their bodies did not cooperate. The relationship fizzled out. Sometimes I think about those two minds in love, floating and traveling in space. . . .

Don and Rhonda

Donald met Rhoda on the Internet Chat Line. They carried on a long distance romance. Finally

they met and have since moved in together. They found happiness through cyberspace. During the course of speaking with men and women who employed this method of meeting other singles, I was told that both sexes give misleading information about age, weight and physical appearance. Some of the pictures they send over the Internet or by snail mail were true twenty years ago. It is important to search for and demand honesty and integrity when searching for that special person.

Dan and Suzie

Dan met Suzie on the Internet. He told me Susie said she was just over thirty. After they met, she finally confessed that she was ifty-four. While she did appear youthful for her age, she was not completely honest. Dan was very disappointed because, among other things, he wanted to have children and felt it would not be possible with Suzie because of her age. Dan says he stills thinks fondly of Suzie but trust for him is not there. He is off cyberspacing again hoping to meet his special lady. I gave him an affirmation to do and I am confident he will soon call me, telling the good news about his new relationship.

Cecilia and Anthony

Cecilia met Anthony on the Internet. He was from another country. E-mails were flying back and forth and she was on Cloud Nine! He flew to Canada to meet her they liked each other and hit it off immediately. It seemed so wonderful and everything was magical. After a sixweeks’ visit he went home. When he arrived back home he sent her an e-mail saying that he had undergone a change of heart. She said the email was so business like and very different from the previous ones declaring his undying love for her. She was mystified and could not understand what went wrong. What took place on that eight-hour flight back home? He never answered any of her e-mails, notes or telephone calls. Her theory is that he got scared of his feelings of love for her, the commitment issue came up and he decided to end it. She may be right.

Julie and Steve

Julie met Steve over the Internet. They started e-mailing and this continued for at least one and a half years. They spoke to each other on the telephone daily and the telephone bills were sky high. The “I love you’s,” were thick and flying back and forth at break-neck speed. He decided to take a car trip to Seattle to meet her. She was so excited and asked me if I would accompany her. When she told me what the plan was, I was totally shocked. He wanted her to be dropped of at a Rest Area Stop and she was so enamored with Steve that she had agreed. I absolutely refused to take her there. She reluctantly agreed to go with my plan and when Steve phoned later and found out he was very angry and hostile. She told him we would be meeting him at a Mall in the Seattle area. At least, I thought, if she did not like him, I could drive her back to her vehicle. When he arrived we were both in a total state of shock. First of all he did not remotely resemble the Internet picture, and secondly he was unkempt,unshaven and very scary looking. Five minutes into the conversation he asked Julie if he could borrow $100. After Julie paid the restaurant bill, we both looked at each other in amazement. Needless to say she sent him packing. She thanked me repeatedly with tears streaming down her cheeks for insisting they meet at the Mall as I drove her back to her vehicle. It could have turned out very differently.

Helga and James

Another of my friends met her husband over the Internet and I was proud to be her Maid of Honor at her wedding. Three years later, they are still happily married.

Jackie and Harold

Jackie met her employer Harold who has been an absolute Godsend to her. He was separated at the time. They discovered that they were not compatible as lovers, but struck up a successful, thriving business. Today it is worth more than a quarter of a million dollars annually.

Matt and Theresa

Matt met Theresa over the Internet. He fell desperately in love with her. He loved her voice, her manner and personality. They had numerous telephone conversations and exchanged letters and e-mails. There was one thing that bothered Matt. She was always very evasion when he suggested that they meet in person. She always had an excuse. Finally he remembered something that was said in conversation about the place where she worked. He started piecing things together and found out where she worked. When he finally located her, he found out she was a married woman with four young children. When he confronted her on the telephone, she admitted it and said she was not ready or prepared to break up her family, but just wanted to be pursued by another man. She actually wanted to have an affair with Matt and still keep her marriage in tact. Matt is still grieving over Theresa and he is very hurt that she strung him along and was not truthful. He told me that he will be a little more careful who he gives his heart to. It was a harsh lesson, but Matt has not given up on his search for the perfect woman for him. He is also doing the affirmation I taught him and specifying that this lady is honest and truthful. He is in my prayers and affirmations.

Nadia and Steve

Nada goes cyberspace surfing. Perhaps I was curious and maybe even lonely. After noticing an

Internet advertisement, I decided to fill out a profile and see what I might find. It was a one-month free trial. Initially I exercised some caution and excluded uploading my photo. Little did I know that the person I was about to meet online was going to influence my life in more ways than he even knows! I conversed with two males at the same time. I felt awkward doing so, however, that is the reality out there. I did notice how there is an indescribable aura, tone, mood and personality to each person, even though we were not conversing in person. I took a real liking to Steve.

He was a vice president of a company in New York, established, well educated and grounded - exactly what I needed at that time of my life. Our communication lasted about eight months. It consisted of email and telephone calls. Steve, a recovering alcoholic, helped me realize that I needed and could benefit from counselling. The reality is that I was certainly not ready in any way for any kind of relationship. He was a good listener; he knew just what to say that would help me answer my own questions. He shared with me his experience with co-dependency which plagues many people today. As a single parent, I was experiencing emotional, physical and financial challenges that affected my son’s behaviour.

I began seeking counselling for my son, which in turn commenced counselling for me. Later to discover that my son’s emotional state was merely a reflection of me. Fortunately, for approximately three years, I persisted in the process of self-discovery and have benefited enormously. Having pressure to remarry again from family and friends, I ventured again this time by placing my profile at two separate services. The profiles did not have very many details outlining each individual. One person I recall had lied about his age, claiming to be ten years younger than he was. Honesty is paramount for me and I would imagine for most people. Disappointed with the quality of some profiles, I put more of my focus back on the other company. Having gone through counselling, I was a more confident person. I had no reluctance to being open and up front by including my photos. Personally, I only fully read and viewed profiles that included photos. Looks are important; however, not the deciding factor for the success of a relationship; and I do not mean Mr Universe. I noticed my number one match was a profile that did not have a photo available. I ignored that profile for about two months. One day, I decided to read through this profile, which outlined his physical traits, personality and activities. At this point, I knew what type of men I found attractive and this individual had traits I was looking for. His photo was not available; it was ‘for friends only’. Luckily he included a return email address.

He was an attractive single father, devoted to his children, a successful businessman, educated, compassionate, witty, and as I began to know him more, noticed he was extremely talented in writing. I would confidently say that he is one of the best writers that I have ever had the privilege of reading. This began an equally profound experience for me as having attended counseling. Without faltering, I must put what I have learned into action with Lawrence. We have communicated for 11 months now, mostly via email. Though we have not yet physically met, I feel I know him well and consider him a close friend. I have immensely matured by honestly looking at my strengths and weaknesses and giving myself a fair evaluation. I have learned so much about myself from this relationship. I became conscious of what is important and is not important to me; what I want in a relationship and what I do not want. I have learned when to say enough is enough and how to regain my power when I’m feeling helpless and overwhelmed. I have spent months working on my personal childhood issues of rejection and abandonment.

Many times I would feel on the verge of nausea just before opening his email, from the debilitating fear of rejection. I have learned to exercise mind power when I am totally filled with the feeling of fear. My task was to stay calm and comfort that small wounded child within myself by saying: “I am safe and I won’t leave you”. Communicating with Lawrence has also, acquainted me with my writing capabilities as another form of personal expression. This man has influenced my life, to what capacity, only God knows at this point. Perhaps because of him, I have gained enough confidence to now to pursue writing my first book. This is a relationship I will truly reasure. Of course, like any other relationship, we have had our challenges. Challenges that others may perceive as negative have been positive experiences as they have given me tremendous clarity in seeking the right man for me. Now that is worth it! During the last couple of months, I added my profile to another service. I remember thinking, ‘why not, I have nothing to lose by having my profile out there’. From coaching, I had a clear picture of what type of man I wanted. I put my focus on what I wanted, as opposed to what I did not want. Shortly after, I received an email from a very attractive man, David, who is a successful Marketing Director, educated, grounded, well organized, honest,pro-active and loved to communicate. He was very direct and made his intentions clear from his first email.

He wanted a committed relationship and to meet with me the following month. I was very surprised and even frightened by his level of directness. This was something I was not used to, from communicating with Lawrence. David was completely different in his approach and personality. We started communicating by telephone within twenty-four hours of his first email. Our almost daily talks went on for hours; he loved planning what we would do together. This friendship abruptly ended as it hastily began. Why I attracted David into my life, I am not completely sure of at this point. One thing I am sure of is we sometimes attract what we do not want in our lives or in this case challenges that require personal growth for both of us. My coach was right, the real test for me in meeting David, was to be proud of who I am and not apologize for any aspect of me. And yes, I am a wonderful, loving person, who is deserving, exactly as I am! July 10, 2002 Nada Adams

There are numerous case histories.

It is very important to stay balanced and use your common sense. When planning to do some Internet surfing and relationship searching on the Internet also do the accompanying Master Affirmation. This is your Trigger Tool or Magic Wand to making your dreams a reality and attract that special person to you.

Surf With Your Own Master Affirmation in Tact

When planning to do some Internet surfing and relationship searching on the Internet also do

the accompanying Master Affirmation. This is your Trigger Tool or Magic Wand to make your dreams a reality and attract that special person to you now.

Expect him or her to walk right out of your affirmation!

“I, (your name), deserve and now have a lasting, loving, happy, healthy relationship with

the perfect person for me. I find him or her on the Internet and we enjoy a rewarding, fulfilled happy relationship/marriage. Divine Wisdom knows where this person is and the power of my subconscious mind brings us together in its own way. He or she is honest,trustworthy and dependable as I am honest, trustworthy and dependable. We are happy, fulfilled, and peaceful to the good of all parties concerned. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.”

I fully accept

Signed: ___________________________

Dated: ___________________________

When you date and sign your Master Affirmation, you have made a firm and binding contract with your Higher Self, God, Universal Mind or whomever you believe in. Even a check is worthless unless it is dated and signed. When meeting the stranger that you have been communicating with on the Internet, meet at a public place. When in doubt, don’t do it. Listen to your small still voice (intuition) and let it be your guide. When doing affirmations of this type, it is imperative to use balance and common sense. Do not attempt to twist the affirmation to suit your own needs.

Be sure and Heed the Safety Clause

Jody told me because she did an affirmation and met a married man it was meant to be. When I

questioned her further about the affirmation content, she finally admitted to me that she

had overlooked adding the safety clause to the good of all parties concerned. She became very unhappy about the time she was spending alone, waiting for her married lover. The relationship ended in disaster and was a great learning experience for Jody. Affirmations always work but they must be properly done and to the good of all parties concerned, and this includes you!

Affirmation Rules

* Never hurt or take from anyone

* Your Affirmations must be created to the good of all parties concerned and this includes you.

* There must be at least a 51% believability factor that it can manifest as affirmed.

* Use your common sense.

* Have fun

Don’t look at Internet dating as the only source of meeting single people. Check out dating clubs, organizations, newspapers, singles dances, ruises, church gatherings garage sales, swap meets, grocery stores (especially the produce department and be aware of those people shopping for one), and other appropriate places. Also churches, reputable dating clubs, Internet chat room, skiing, friends, relatives, your place of employment, blind dates are all places to meet other singles. Other places could be on cruises and vacations for singles. When a friend or relative fixed you up with a date, it can be both negative and positive. Positive in that the person arranging the date knows you life style and characteristics and that person isn’t an absolute stranger to you. It can be negative because now your friend or relative who arranged the date has a direct pipeline into the details of the date and any additional dates or involvement Expect your first date to be a little awkward so try to break the ice. True love is built on a bridge of communication. Talk, ask questions and then listen, listen and listen. If you are sincerely interested in pursuing a relationship, use the ten magic words, “You are so interesting; please tell me all about yourself. People are always interested in talking about their lives, problems, interests and accomplishments. The qualities you are asking for in a mate also need to be present in you. If some of them are lacking in your life, start cultivating hem today. Do not wait until the relationship is dead to realize it is finished. Do not waste time on mercy dates. Those are dates where you are wishing you were somewhere else with someone else. If the person is not interested in you, or you are not interested in them, go on to the next one. There are over six billion people on the planet and you can be sure that there is that special person just for you.

To Recap

* Make sure that thereon you are communicating with is coming from a place of integrity.

* Meet in a public place.

* Check out the person before making agreements and arrangements.

* Use your common sense.

* Do your Master Affirmation.

* Always tell a friend where you are meeting and when.

* Be honest and expect honesty from him or her. If you don’t feel comfortable about something - UN-AGREE.

* Be safe, happy and most of all — have fun!

Affirmations When Properly Done Always ork.

Dr. Anne Marie Evers

Author:Dr. Anne Marie Evers

Pros And Cons Of The Age Gap

Being with someone who is several years older or younger than you can be both a blessing and a curse. Before you decide to get serious, you should know what you’re getting into.

If you’re younger…

PROS

You get to be with someone mature. Someone who doesn’t “act out” or throw tantrums just because you happened to mention that you have a crush on a celebrity. Also, because of your lover’s life experience, he/she can dish out valuable advice that you couldn’t get from your friends.

You can learn a thing or two - and I’m not just talking about life lessons. Older people have had more sexual experiences, and if you’ve got the right lover, he or she won’t hesitate to teach you some new “moves”.

Your lover is more interesting than people your age. Again, this is mostly because of life experiences. Older men and women have gone through enough problems and opportunities, and they have several funny, inspiring, painful, and horrifying stories to tell. Also, if the age gap is wide enough, the type of music or movies that he or she likes may be completely different from yours, and getting a taste of these “oldies” can help you grow culturally.

CONS

Emotional baggage. The older man and the older woman have enough emotional baggage to drag you down. Beware of verbally psychoanalyzing their actions - it’s unlikely that they want a “kid” to tell them what they did wrong in their lives. Instead, be understanding and make sure that your older lover isn’t an emotional vampire who will suck you dry.

If you’re older…

PROS

The younger man/woman can inspire you with a sense of awe. Having a young, new body next to you can knock a few years off of your own age. You get to do more youthful things, and you tap the mindset of today’s youth.

The younger lover doesn’t have that much emotional baggage. This means that things are more “happy-go-lucky” and smoother with the younger lover. You won’t get late night conversations about every ex that’s ever broken his or her heart. Also, there’s not much that you can get compared to. Odds are, if he or she says that you’re the best sex in his/her life, it’s true.

The younger lover looks up to you. This is because of all the advice and life lessons you have to offer. You’ve been through a lot, and your lover knows this. Odds are, you’re the first one he or she talks to during times of conflict.

CONS

The younger lover can be immature. Sometimes, young lovers are such perfectionists that they seek all sorts of things that you can’t give. This is why, if you want to go out with someone younger, make sure that he or she is mature for his or her age.

Author:Graham Billingham

The Newest Wedding Sensation… Coffee Wedding Favors

There are very few times in a person’s life that the world will completely revolve around them. One of those times and probably the most significant is their wedding day. For couples planning their big day, there are many aspects of the wedding to consider. From the dresses and tuxedos to the very plates they will dine off of, there will be nothing left to chance. This day must go as planned. With so much to think about, a small, but important part of the wedding is the wedding favors. From generic simple favors to personalized unique favors, options are endless.

When choosing favors for your wedding, you can reference books, stores, and now online websites for ideas. In the past, most weddings contained the same basic setups and party favors found at the few stores that catered to weddings, baby showers, and other occasions. Today we have the benefit of the Internet and party favors designed by the many artists who have brought us themes that fit any lifestyle imaginable. What is your theme? Are you having a beach wedding? Perhaps an autumn wedding, wedding favors can coincide with your theme easily and add an extra uniqueness to your special day.

For every theme, there is a perfect wedding favor. Some of your choices may be: mints, candles, frames, chocolate bar wedding favors and much more. The latest wedding favor sensation is coffee wedding favors. These are the most unique wedding favors available. For specialty themes like coffee wedding favors, you may have to seek out an Internet wedding favor retailer for all items pertaining to coffee lovers. Choose a coffee wedding favor designed to match your theme and personalize them with the bride and groom’s name and wedding date. Whichever your taste, coffee wedding favors have become a favorite within the last five years or so. Java, after all, is the morning medicine that keeps many of us on time to our morning meetings and gives us a boost of energy!

Wedding gifts for the bride’s maids and groom’s men have been a long time tradition not to mention leaving the guests with items to use as souvenirs. There are so many items to choose, from heart shaped coffee scoops to personalized coffees there is something for everyone. When you have just one chance to get it right, always do your best by choosing wedding favors that fit your wedding theme and personality.

Author:Ruben Soliman

Ways To Fall Apart After The Break Up

The relationship is all over, what do you do next? It is always hard to survive a break up and there is really no easy way to deal with it than just to go ahead and face it. You will have to gather all your courage to face the world again otherwise go rot in one corner and wait for pity to arrive which as you well may know will never be arriving.

There are five vis-a-vis ways to fall apart after a tragic break-up. However the entire choice would all be up to you.

1. Begging: You can either fall on your knees and start begging that he or she should take you back again or stand your ground and take the news lightly.

2. Promise: You can either promise to change into the exact person he or she wants you to be or look him or her in the eye and be proud that you are who you are.

3. Cry your heart out: You can either empty your tear-glands, shake up crying to let him or her know that you are really not fine or you can smile even though it is hard for you just to tell him or her that you are strong enough to hold out until the end.

4. Suicide threats: You can either yell out threats that you will kill yourself if he or she leaves you or you can quietly say you are not fine but you will strive to be one for him or her.

5. Blaming: You can either lash out at him or her, blame everything to him or her for all the pain you are feeling or you can simply thank him or her for all the things you have shared and part ways with your chin up then fall apart only when you are in the privacy of your room.

Those are five different ways you could always choose from. Whether you follow the bad side of it or choose its counterpart is entirely dependent on your choice. If you have never been into a tragic relationship end, you will likely have one in the future may it be sooner or later. There are also means on having to survive a break-up with class and maturity. This way it will boost your self esteem or the experience can entirely be messy and you will only end up more embarrassed than you should be. The choice is only for you to make. There will be nobody who will take that responsibility except you.

More often than not, the person who was dumped would feel all the pain and anger. This should be a normal human reaction. There should be no negative comment exchange between you two if you want to carry things out as less painful as possible. There should never be blaming and put out the entire burden on the account of a single person only. Such is not a healthy break-up and will only cause more water stirs than it normally should.

In the end of it all, you should beware of rebound romance. Do not ever get carried away of your overwhelming emotions just because your relationship is over. You have to be aware and keep always in mind that at this point of your life you are most fragile and vulnerable to emotions and even attention. Rebound romance is the quickest way to utter self destruction. It is a man with mask and when that mask is taken off it will only turn you off. So before anything is too late, do not ever attempt on rebound romances.

Author:James Brown

If You Want To Get Back With Your Ex, Do Not…

Getting back with your ex again, is always possible. However, a great many people fall into the trap of a number of obvious mistakes, in their strategy.

Pushing

You cannot force love. The more you try to make your Ex love you, or accept you again - the faster they will run in the other direction.

Begging

Not only is this highly embarrassing to your ex-partner and anyone within earshot, it will come back to haunt you. Your own confidence, self-esteem and dignity, will take a nose-dive. Apart from being just plain pathetic, it also portrays you as being weak. AND, it won’t work!

Alcohol

Drowning our sorrows is an inalienable right, for anyone who has been emotionally devastated by a break-up .Getting drunk, will win you no brownie-points though. With alchohol clouding your already confused and bruised soul, you are even more likely to do or say something really dumb - if not out-right embarrassing to all and sundry. Alcohol and anger,or violence often go hand-in-hand, too. Don’t make things worse. Just don’t be drinking when important matters are up for consideration!

The Telephone and the Drink

DO NOT even THINK about it!! Nothing worse than a maudlin, ranting and raving drunk on the other end of the phone.

Apologizing

Be careful here. It generally takes two people to ruin a relationship, be it with your lover, boy/girl friend, husband, or wife. Saying you’re sorry is always a good start to the healing process, but avoid taking the blame for everything that was wrong with your relationship, as this may convince your ex that you are just no good. Although the break-up may indeed be all down to you - it’s not your fault if it rained every time you went on a picnic.

Bad-mouthing

Your ex-partners friends are not going to like you anymore, they will take sides and it will not be yours. Friends do that, that’s why they are friends. Solidarity and all that. Should you be unfortunate enough to be informed of negative advice, about you, by your ex’s friends - wear it. Getting defensive, or even worse, bad-mouthing them in return, will only make things worse, for you. Your ex will be compelled to defend the friends and create another reason to dislike you. If you are going to succeed at winning back your ex, accept these views gracefully. You don’t have to like it, or agree, just accept - don’t compete, then at least you will have retained some dignity.

Settling for Less

Speaking of Dignity, do try and not grab the first available warm body, in an effort to make your ex-partner jealous. This will not work, and there are a number of colorful but rude names applied to this sort of person. Being strong and self sustained in this matter, indicates to your ex that they are the only one you are interested in.

The Leper in You

Relying on your friends, as a shoulder to cry on sure is comforting. But try not to over-burden them to the point, where they see you coming and hide. We all know the person who bangs on about their ex at every available opportunity. Given that this is often a normal part of the grieving process and cathartic, it is not necessary - don’t let it be you. Be a grown-up.

Self Aggrandizement

Telling tales, embarrassing stories, or rumor-mongering about your ex, will only come back to haunt you. The “he said/she said” game is best left where it belongs - in the school-ground. This can have a snowball-effect and things can get blown out of all proportion. If you are going to start telling little lies - remember that you must keep telling them, to cover the previous ones - AND you had better have an enormous memory to keep up with them all. A Rule to Live by: “If you don’t have something nice to say, then don’t say anything.”

The F-Word is an N-Word

Avoid using the word “friends”. It’s a No-No. Ultimately, you are trying to get back together, in your “relationship”.

So call it that, manifest your desire - it’s a “relationship”. Calling yourselves “friends” is a backward step and you may just keep on going in that direction.

The Ghost in You

Try to avoid going to “those places we used to go”. Or some place that you know your ex-partner will be. This will not appear as a “coincidence”.

You cannot just casually re-join the “old group”, you have a history now. Guaranteed, if you try this tactic - everyone will go quiet, immediately after they have said their uncomfortable hello’s. Apart from making a fool of yourself, what are you going to do next? Well, you could just leave and retain at least some of dignity. But, you won’t, will you? No, your going to go sit at the bar on your lonesome, sadly sipping at your drink. Wow, what a tragic sight - surely someone will see just-how-much-your-hurting and offer some succor? This will not garner you one ounce of sympathy! You are only going to look pathetic! Just don’t do it!!

“I just don’t care anymore”

Okay, you have felt better. Actually you feel like crap. Who cares what you look, or smell like? Well actually, your ex does. He/she will be seeing how you fare, you are supposed to be trying to get back there, not advertising that you are a lost cause. Don’t give up on your appearance. This is the time to look your best. Start working out, get some new clothes, and focus on improving yourself. You need to show the world what your ex is missing, you are one prime catch.

The Plan

There is no plan, no rules, no “getting-back-together-class” - you have to do this all-by-your-self. Starting with small goals like, keeping up your appearance, or staying sober, try to achieve these things everyday. Then move on to those that are a little more difficult, like creating a happy environment around yourself - buy yourself a bunch of flowers every Tuesday. It’s a small thing, but it helps - try it.

Try

Quite possibly the hardest thing to accomplish when you are feeling so devastated - You Must Try. Sitting around, wallowing in self-pity and remorse, will not bring your ex back.

Hopefully, the words above have given you an insight into what not to do, when trying to get back with your ex again.
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Thankyou.

Author:Chris Meagher

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